What was the lesson that has stayed with him? To say "yes" more often when the boys ask him to do something with them... Grant in particular.
Last week while camping, Grant wanted to go fishing. HH took him and let him pick the spot. Grant wanted to fish from a wooden bridge because it certainly looked the part. (God bless his little romantic soul.) HH told him that it was actually a bad place to fish, but Grant insisted. How an 8 year old has a Norman Rockwell image in his mind, I don't know, but HH set him up to fish there.
HH waited patiently for 2 hours while Grant got the Norman Rockwell Ideal Fishing Images out of his head. The child did not catch a single fish from that bridge (not even a nibble), but HH let him stay there until he was ready to move on. Which eventually they did, AND Grant caught a fish, AND he learned how to clean it.
HH shared this Yes Dad epiphany with one of his friends, who mentally digested it a few days and then implemented it with one of his daughters.
The following was a text exchange between them.
Friend: Hey pal, having date night w my 5 y.o. girl and saying yes to every ridiculous request...thsnks for the tip.
HH: Sounds awesome. Hope you truly enjoy it.
Friend: It wasn't enough to just buy the toy mermaid, but we had to walk down to the beach to play where she lived... I said "okay, but you'll get sand in your nice shoes." Appropriately, she smiled and said: "who cares?"
That. Is. Awesome.
(I guess I should work on being a better Yes Mom.)