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Wednesday, February 29, 2012

A perfect storm of crap. (And good friends who are helping with clean up.)

I'm sorry that I haven't shared this before, but things have been pretty stressful around here.  I have a perfect storm of emotional trials going on.  There are several critical family issues all happening at once, the most serious being that my ex-husband is in end stage colon cancer.

I recently posted about how proud I am of my two oldest boys as they stay by their father's side in these last days.
One of my favorite photos of Mike.
The doctors have told us that there isn't much time left for him, so posting will be pretty light around here for a bit.

However, I have some fabulous blogger friends who will be dropping by with recipes, craft tutorials,activities to do with your kids... and I will be republishing some of my favorite Grant Stories, because we can use a little levity around here.

There is never a good time/age to lose a parent, so thank you to everyone who has left words of encouragement and offered up prayers for Devin and Conner.  They are appreciated more than you can imagine.

36 comments:

Connie said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys.

Please let me know if I can do anything more.

Pam said...

I just want you to know you and your family are in my heart and prayers.

Creative Raisins said...

Thinking of you and your family

Al said...

Sending you hugs and prayers.

Emmy said...

I will keep Mike and your boys and all of you in my prayers. I am so so sorry

Anna@Directions Not Included said...

Oh V, I'm so sorry to hear this. Good thoughts and prayers headed to Mike, you and the boys. Big hugs.

Laurie Sublime said...

I'm so very sorry you're all going through this difficult situation. Sending thoughts and prayers your way for the strength, peace, and comfort each of you need. Much love.

Tonya said...

Vivienne,
My heart breaks for your family. As I cried out to our Father on behalf of your family, this song came to mind, "Lord over everything, You are near. All of the universe at Your feet." (Lost are Found by Hillsong)
Praying that Your family will be comforted by The Comforter.
Tonya

bk said...

The summer of my 20th bday, I lost 6 family members (not at the same time or same reason) I saw this on pinterest awhile back and really this is all that I ever wanted to hear from someone offering condolences:
To be honest with you, I don't have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that's aching to see you smile again.

I hope your family is able to smile again soon.

Impulsive Addict said...

WHAT? You forgot to ask me to post a craft project for you!

HA!

On a serious note, I really like that picture of Mike. This is just so sad. I feel like a broken record but I really am keeping you guys in my prayers. I hope other situations are being worked on too.

Love Love xoxo

At The Picket Fence said...

Oh Viv! My heart and prayers go out to your family, especially the boys. I cannot even imagine what they are feeling. I am so glad they have such a great mom to walk this journey with them. Praying for Mike and for God to grant him a peace and assurance that passes all understanding. Love to you.

Heather

Tardevil said...

So very sorry for you and your boys. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Bethany @ A Fish Who Likes Flowers said...

My thoughts are with your family during this difficult time. It's never easy to lose someone that you love, but your boys still have you and a strong, loving support system with the rest of your family, so they will make it through this. It's moments like these, when something so dear is lost, that you figure out that you are blessed with what you do have in your life.

Rhissanna said...

I'm so sorry to hear about this, V. You must be so proud of your boys, they've grown up into wise and compassionate people and they're doing such a good thing. My thoughts are with you and, yes, the blog can wait. We'll be here for you when you can get back. God bless.

SueAnn said...

This is a tough time for them and for you. Hugging you all and prayers for Mike.
Hugs
SueAnn

SueAnn said...

This is a tough time for them and for you. Hugging you all and prayers for Mike.
Hugs
SueAnn

Cara said...

Oh Viv, my heart just aches for your boys and your whole family. My thoughts and heart are with y'all <3

Kelli said...

My heart is just so heavy for you right now and I am covering you and your boys and their family in prayer. I wish I could hop over and give you a hug, bring you a meal, dust for you :)

Becca @ R We There Yet Mom? said...

Wow - words cannot convey how my heart goes out to you & the boys. Amazing fortitude and strength is what I am hearing from you - again, the trials are tough, but God will never give you more than you can handle.

Love you friend,

~Becca

Jen said...

Please Let Devin know that Dylan and his family are thinking of him and sending our love from far away, Dylan wishes more than anything he could be there for his buddy. ~ Jen & Dylan

Shawn said...

Dang, you scored two hot men!

Seriously, you know I'm praying for you and the entire family for peace, strength and courage in all situations and I will continue. I'm so sad for the trials you are facing and so wish it were different.

If you need anything sweet friend you know how to find me.

Lots of love and hugs,
~S

Johanson Family said...

wish there was a way we could all do more to help!! sending many prayers and hope the happy memories can fill ya'll's hearts while this all happens. Love lots!!!

Annie said...

My prayers are with you and your family; it is good to know you have friends there to pitch in and God Bless

Xazmin said...

Love you Vivienne.

Good Time Charlie said...

Oh Viv, I am so, so sorry for your boys. Please know your family and your boys will be in my prayers. Much love to you all. -K

~ Laura said...

Oh Viv, know that you are being thought about and prayed for right now. I'm sending you a big hug, too. Take all the time you need to be with your family and don't even worry about your blog...we will be here when you feel ready to come back. Take care, sweetie, you are loved!!

Richella said...

God bless you all, Vivienne. I am so very, very sorry about this. I pray for your boys. I also pray for you and your hubby as you care for them as well as deal with your own grief.

chris said...

Having a parent with cancer is tough. I've struggled as an adult child, I can't imagine how I would have handled it as a teenager. I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers.

MiMi said...

You are still in my prayers friend.
And that's a very handsome picture of him, too. :)

reFresh reStyle said...

Viv, I am so sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my prayers.
Debbie

Michelle said...

heartbreaking... praying for peace for your boys and your family... and even more prayers for their father.

Lolly Jane said...

Hi Viv. Sorry to hear about the hardships in your family's life. We'll be praying for your boys, they're in a tough spot and our hearts break for them. May you all be comforted. Hang in there. XO

Debilou ~ Mississippi Mama said...

Thinking of you and the boys during this sad and difficult time.

Amy Anderson said...

Praying for you my friend! Let me know if I can do anything else! xo

Maridith Fitts said...

Ugh! I am so sorry. Praying for you my friend and your sweet boys.

Holly Lefevre said...

Viv- I am late to the game...but just wanted to say I am thinking about you, and am amazed at how mature and responsible and, well amazing your boys are during this time. You have done a good job my friend. Sending prayers...

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